Day 53 - Subtle Techniques vs. What We Learn From Pornography

Tonight we decided to do a fellatio session. I started with more sucking techniques, but D.Love just wasn’t very into it. He is soo, soooo, sooo much of a LICK man.

It’s crazy, we all learn from pornography as to what feels so great for a man...that men like the pumping up and down motion and the hard sucking. And so many men have no idea that what might feel better are more subtle techniques that involve the lips, the teeth, and the tongue. And that hand and mouth combos can bring them to new stages of ecstasy.

I am happy that D.Love and I are finding this out. I love that he is a LICK man!

Day 54 - Attempting to Have "The Worst Oral Sex"

Today’s events were hilarious. When I came into the room D. Love was asleep, of course. He’s been having these pains in his ribs and what looked like fang bites. So he went to the doctor. The doctor informed him that he has Shingles, which are not contagious, but are some kind of Pox virus...which in some ways are good since he has never had the Chicken Pox.

So when I came in joking that he was one big virus, he was half asleep. I asked him what he would like to do and he told me that he would prefer I go down on him, but that he might not be so fresh. He just pulls down his pants, then he gets out his iPhone and points the camera towards me like he is taking pictures. Then I start laughing. How can he just do everything wrong? So I tell him that we should actually just try to have the worst oral sex ever and do everything that we shouldn’t.

So I look at him with Zombie eyes as I start to do a technique from my book. I tell him that this technique is now going to be called The Zombie. We laugh. It turns out hilarious. Then as I am doing another technique, he yawns and takes a drink of water. I joke with him – "Oh, you should just eat a meal while you are at it!"

What is surprising is that even though we were razzing each other and joking and laughing a bunch, he still got completely aroused. That was surprising to me. Especially since we were trying to have the worst oral sex. Instead, we laughed a lot, had a lot of fun, and ended up having some pretty good oral sex. That was great!

Day 55 - Sometimes, Simple is Just as Great

Shooting all day. D. Love and I were crazy exhausted after my birthday party and celebration for my oral book, Blow Each Other Away, and new videos, Yoga for Sexual Health and Pleasure, just coming out. Watch the trailer here!

We decided just to do some simple fellatio. At this point I have learned what D.Love really likes so I can easily go into that and please him. We did about 10-15 minutes of oral pleasure and then cuddled as we difted off to sleep. Sometimes, simple is just as great as doing something really, really adventurous.

Day 56 - The White Tigress Technique

D.Love and I tried the White Tigress Technique that Amara Charles and Shayna taught us. I simply held his penis in my mouth. Totally soft. Then we breathed together. Just taking deep breaths...deep, deep breaths.

D. Love was so tired. I thought for sure that he would just fall asleep since the technique was so relaxing. Really relaxing. I just lay next to him on my side with my head on his stomach, and then rested with his penis in my mouth. Eventually he started to get more and more aroused. I think that if we weren’t both so crazy tired from a very, very long day we would have really enjoyed this technique.  It was such a nice change of pace...just being, not doing anything except for breathing and feeling the sensation of him inside my mouth. That was great.

It was also awesome to learn a new White Tigress Technique.  A big thank you to my assistant Michele for having them come teach us for my Birthday!

Day 57 - Orgasm and Then Off to Dreamland

We’re shooting this docudrama all week, so we’ve had the house full of camera crews. However, once the house was quiet and everyone asleep, D.Love and I are staying true to our mission.

I like yesterday’s White Tigress Technique so much that we started with that, just getting warmed up together. It’s such a great technique. Then we moved into full on fellatio. D.Love had a great orgasm and then we drifted off to dreamland, cuddling and kissing before we went.

Day 58 - The Kind of Lovemaking Where You Know You Won't See Someone for a While

Long shoot day and then I had a show with Dr. Susan Block teaching oral sex lessons to adult film stars. It’s always a crazy circus there. What was interesting is that the men were all having trouble getting hard, and for an adult star this is the end of the world for them. Instead of taking my advice of slowing down, feeling their bodies, using their breath etc...they left the stage to try to go get an erection. They completely missed the point that erection doesn’t matter when it comes to oral sex, and sometimes it feels even better if you aren’t fully erect.

D.Love appeared on the show with me since we were talking about the 90 Days of Oral Sex Challenge. We didn’t get home until 1:00 AM, and we still had our oral playtime to do! I’m leaving tomorrow for a 10 Day trip to New York City. I’ll be doing media there and teaching the Super Sex Make-Over with Sheri Winston. So we had to be sure to get our 58th day in! Fortunately, even though I’d just had a 15+ hour day we were still energized and eager to connect since I was leaving. We had some great oral and then moved into intercourse.

The lovemaking was great. It was that kind of lovemaking where you know you won’t see someone for awhile and your bodies tell each other how much you will miss this connection. I will miss D.Love and his tongue greatly!

Day 59 - Yummy Reuniting Kisses and Oral Love

I’ve been away in NYC for way too long. It was a whirlwind of a trip...teaching workshops, meeting with publishers, doing major media, etc. I did manage to see a very sexy play called Sleep No More – highly recommended. At any rate my flight didn’t get in until well after midnight and I thought I’d be way to exhausted to pick up our 90 Day Challenge.

However, seeing D.Love was awesome, and since he was willing for some late night/early morning love, I dove in with him. We had lots of yummy reuniting kisses...that led to some yummy oral where we both gave and received. This led to awesome intercourse.

The whole experience was very filled with passion.
It is so good to be home!