Day 41 - Tonight We Would Simply Spend Lots of Time Kissing Each Other

Since we hadn’t had a great make-out session in a really long time we decided that tonight we would simply spend lots of time kissing each other. We kissed and kissed. D.Love had scratchy whiskers, so a shave would have been great before we had started, but I wanted kisses from him so badly that I didn’t mind so much.

Day 47 - Warming Up With Some Nipple Sucking and Cunnilingus

Tonight I really wanted more than just oral sex so we planned on getting to some intercourse, but took our time getting there. First we started with Nipple Play. Since breastfeeding, I have not been a fan of the way D.Love stimulates my nipples. I had the mental thought that we should do a Nipple Play lab, not right at that moment, but perhaps on Day 48.

After some nipple sucking, he took his tongue down below and warmed me up with some cunnilingus.  After some great hand and mouth combos from my book, I was more than ready for full out intercourse. D.Love didn’t want to ejaculate two nights in a row, so he opted for me to have an orgasm, but for himself he decided he would withhold. I love how much control he has! It’s great for me.

Day 48 - As Women, We Often Don't Speak Up About Our Needs

YES!  I love sex labs. This is where, instead of just doing whatever comes to us, we have a specific mission. Tonight the mission was for me to share with D.Love exactly how I wanted my nipples to be touched, licked and sucked. We hadn’t taken the time to actually explore this and I was excited to share with him in a positive way...never criticizing, but sharing what I like.

It’s weird that I never spoke up to him about how much nipple stimulation had changed for me since breastfeeding. I didn’t really tell him that it hurt and was irritating. It’s a frequent thing that we women do...we don’t speak up for fear of hurting our partner’s feelings, because we don’t want to ruin the moment. Or worst of all, because we think our partner should read our minds.

This session was particularly great because together we discovered lots of things that did feel really great. Now D.Love has great information about my nipples, and in the future I will be receiving much more pleasure.

Day 49 - Cuddling, Kissing and Talking About Life

I was feeling emotional today. I just really needed to be cuddled and kissed and to talk with D.Love.  Sometimes I just need a little heart-to-heart pillow talk time, and tonight was that night.

So he went down on me for awhile and then I requested that we just kiss and cuddle and talk about life for a bit. It felt great to not have to go into orgasm or not have to go into intercourse, but just to be able to receive cunnilingus and then take a bunch of time cuddling, kissing and talking until we fell asleep.

Day 50 - Playing With Him With Extremes

D.Love was sleeping when I came into the bedroom tonight. I crawled under the covers with him and started to wake him up by taking off his clothing. He frequently sleeps with all his clothes on and sometimes even his shoes. I don’t know how he does it.

I was in a super creative mood so I started playing with him with extremes. Here’s a hard firm grip...here’s a soft grip. Here’s fast...here’s slow. I just felt so in love with him, so grateful for this journey we are creating together. I built him up slowly to a powerful orgasm with ejaculation. I did a little White Tigress Absorption Meditation. After cleaning up we cuddled, rolled over and drifted off to sleep.

Day 51 - Be Willing to Mess Up in Order to Discover Something That Really Works

D.Love and I decided to do a long cunnilingus session tonight. I didn’t really want to go into orgasm, but I did want to explore new techniques. D.Love decided to try lying on his side with me lying on my side too. That didn’t work so well. Our bodies just didn’t come together right and it was hard to find a place for his head. Then he came up with this great technique. It’s not the right name, but let’s call it the Split Claw. He put one thumb inside my vagina, with his fingers on my mons – split into a V so that he had access to my clitoris. Then he went down.

I have to commend D.Love on his creativity! It’s so great that he is willing to try new things with me and to be willing to mess up in order to discover something that really works. So I guess in essence there really are no mess-ups!

Day 52 - Giving Genital Massage With My Feet

We started out this evenings session with a whole lot of kissing. We just enjoyed and savored each other as we kissed and cuddled. That was great. Then D.Love began some awesome cunnilingus techniques. While he was going down on me my feet had access to his nether regions… so I gave him some genital massage with my feet. That was really fun and arousing for us both. From there we decided to move into intercourse.