Day 6 - Great Cunnilingus!

D.Love wanted to treat me to some great Cunnilingus. I think he likes the end of the bed positions because he put me there again.

This time he kept all of this clothes on as he went down on me. It wasn't long before I had an awesome clitoral orgasm as a result of his hand and mouth combinations.

Day 7 - Parenthood and the 90 Day Oral Challenge

I had made a plan earlier in the day to have a wonderful extensive oral sex and intercourse session with D.Love. See...I'm doing research for my next book on the topic of BDSM and I had spent the entire afternoon with a professional Dominatrix. I wanted to extend the session to where I went into a deep erotic trance....and I had a lot come up for me (I'll write a lot more about this in my next book).

However, our son wouldn't go to bed. He was up until almost midnight and he had a cold so he had stayed home from school and in bed most of the day. I just couldn't get him to go to sleep. So I was in a very bad mood by the time I got to bed. I just wanted time to talk, to share with D.Love my afternoon and to sup up a great session with him for that night. But it was soooo late by then and we were both terribly exhausted (D.Love frequently gets up at 4 or 5AM to start his work day and I am usually up at 6AM with our son). My bad mood was permeating the air. I love my son, but sometimes I don't like being a parent!

At any rate, I simply asked D.Love what he would like. I think he hates this question since he never answers it. He’s all wishy washy and just says, "Let’s see what unfolds". I was upset because my plan fell apart and at this point we really didn’t have time to sink into much conversation about our days.  I felt like I needed a check-in, but at the same time wanted to get on with the oral for the day so that we could go to sleep. I kept pushing D.Love to tell me what he wanted.

Finally he told me (in a rather crass way, which I liked) that he wanted me to go down on him while stimulating his anus. Then he wanted to have intercourse. Perfect! I could do that and it is one of my favorite combinations to perform. I did some Teasing the Rosebud, Pulsing the Rosebud and Spiders on him. I didn’t do a lot of sucking or engulfing just a lot of licking at his Frenulum. This was a magic combination and sent him over the edge in about 10 minutes (we never got to the intercourse).  I practiced a little White Tigress meditation during this time. Doing this changed my state completely and we both floated off to sleep feeling happy, connected and content.

Day 8 - No Ejaculation Necessary

I really do enjoy giving fellatio. I talk in the book about women having orgasms from giving. It is a super awesome turn on for me. I wanted to mix it up a little, and since I get so many sex toys to try out I thought I’d incorporate the Fun Factory Lovering 8ight. D.Love placed the ring around his penis and I began stimulating him. He got super aroused and we decided to have intercourse with the ring on because it has a special clitoris stimulator, but we forgot and used the silcone lube. Since the Lovering is a silicon toy, it is not compatible with Silicone lubricant, so we had to take it off and wipe it off before moving into intercourse.

We had a great session. Lots of pleasure and I had a fabulous orgasm. D.Love decided that he didn’t want to have an ejaculation every time we engage. So I leave the choice up to him in most instances.  This was one where he decided he didn’t want to have an ejaculation, but wanted me to have an orgasm. No arguments here!

Day 9 - Stimulating Him Through His Underwear

D.Love was feeling like he needed to escape, so I watched our son for the evening and entertained guests. He went downstairs to the bedroom to read a book. I knew he’d fall asleep in a wink (he has mild narcolepsy).

It was about 10PM when I came into the bedroom and he was crashed out with a book on his chest and all of his clothes I. I brushed my teeth and then snuck over to him on the bed. I started touching him through his clothes, undid his belt buckle and his pants and used my mouth on him through his clothing. I opened his pants and then stimulated him through is underwear.

I slowly peeled back his underwear so that just the head of his penis was sticking out. I went to town teasing and licking and sucking just the head. His shaft I stimulated through his underwear. By now he was pretty awake and fairly aroused. I smiled at him as I put his penis back in his underwear, stimulated his through then, then I slowly buttoned up his pants while using my hands and mouth, finally his belt.  I then slowly stimulated him through his pants.

I smiled at him mischievously and said that was a little tease, hope that’s okay. He said, "I love it. I love the tease".  Then he fell back asleep.

Day 10 - Do I Taste Like Strawberries?

I’d had a very LONG workday. It was a good day but my brain was in work mode. Being a sexologist, it makes it hard to sometimes differentiate my love life from work. I will sit in my head analyzing a technique, thinking about how I might write about my experience, or how something I am experiencing might help someone else.

This particular night I was really in this mode and mostly in my head. D.Love wanted to give me cunnilingus, so I thought it was a perfect opportunity to have him try out a product called Masque. Masque is a little flavor strip that you let dissolve on your tongue that makes you taste like fruit or chocolate when your lover goes down on you. In this instance D.Love was trying strawberry. As he was licking my clit I just kept wondering if I tasted like strawberries and how the product was working for him. I kept asking him questions instead of enjoying my experience.

Day 11 - Healing Pleasure in the Bathtub!

I think I’m coming down with something nasty. I feel like I have a cold coming on, so I took a nice long bath before bed. D.Love treated me since I wasn’t feeling well and he gave my breasts some oral attention.  

He did a lot of great licking and kissing all over my body. First he nibbled my feet and kissed them. He licked my clitoris then went back to my body and breasts. This really helped me to relax before we both drifted off to sleep.

Day 12 - Can You Catch a Cold From Going Down?

D.Love is afraid to catch my cold and he asked me if I thought you could catch a cold from giving oral. I have to do some research on this. My throat is on fire and I feel awful so giving to him seemed out of the question.

We decided that it was safest to explore some body kissing. He basically worshipped my upper body with his mouth and tongue. He kissed down my arms to the inside of my elbow, a place where I can have orgasms if done right. He kissed to my breasts, played with his mouth on my nipples, then went across to my other arm.

This was perfect for a night when I was feeling icky and he wasn’t sure about catching a cold from me when going down.