Day 37 - It Was Definitely a Fellatio Sex Lab

D.Love took a pass last night. He’s gearing up for his first Ecstatic Dance class. I’m so proud of him it was no problem for me to say “no problem, do whatever you need!”

Tonight we did a lot of experimenting. It was definitely a fellatio sex lab. I did a comparison study. “Do you prefer x or y?” kind of thing. Long licks with movement or long licks with no movement? Deep Throat Porn start style, or subtle? I got in between his legs and played with his r-spot (root of his penis). Do you like it when I grab and squeeze while licking, or if I pull up and down?

D.Love gave me feedback. The only thing he didn’t like was the pornstar style fellatio. Most of the other techniques he did have preferences, but he still liked them all. I wish I had taken better notes, as there were some awesome new techniques I discovered during this session.

D.Love didn’t want to ejaculate, so at the end of the session I led him through the Maha Bandha. This is a yogic technique where you lock your pelvic floor muscles, diaphragm, and throat all at the same time (I teach this on my new video, Yoga For Sexual Health and Pleasure: Volume 1, Vitality Flow).  This helped to bring his erection down by moving the sexual energy all over his body. He started to have full-body kriyatic orgasms!