tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54089509229966065592024-02-07T19:52:45.307-08:00Jaiya's 90 Day Oral ChallengeNew World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.comBlogger92125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-31472683784762313912013-03-31T17:00:00.000-07:002013-04-22T06:50:51.306-07:00Welcome to the 90 Day Oral Challenge!As a Sexual Educator, I am very committed to always "walking my talk". Therefore, in honor of my newest book release, Blow Each Other Away, I decided to enroll my partner, D.love, into a 90 Day Oral Sex Project! (See video below where I share more about WHY I did this, and HOW I enrolled D.Love to participate.)
What an AMAZING experience it was for my partner and I to give and/or receive oral New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-42810184182784440122013-03-31T16:00:00.000-07:002013-04-19T12:03:38.635-07:00How To Enroll Your Partner in The 90 Day Oral ChallengeMy partner D.Love is on board for the 90 Days of Oral Challenge. YAY! Take a look at the video below to see our negotiation...and WHY I chose to do the 90 Day Oral Challenge.
We agreed to the following:
90 Days of Oral Sex with 10 days free in case of sickness or scheduling issues.
There must be at least 5 minutes of present, focused oral play. This includes passionate kissing, body kissing, New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-60399215549431146282013-03-31T15:32:00.000-07:002013-04-22T06:54:03.928-07:00Day 1 - The More Pleasure I Feel, The More He Feels
I received. D.Love really gets into my pleasure. The more pleasure I feel, the more he feels. What I love about oral sex is that you can just get right into it, unlike intercourse, which doesn't feel good if there hasn't been some kind of warm-up.
D.Love started by kissing me, then went below for some flicks on my clit with his tongue, and then some awesome hand and mouth action (D.Love'sNew World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-77102876438230213982013-03-30T15:46:00.000-07:002013-04-19T12:00:34.676-07:00Day 2 - It Was My Turn To Give
We started out kissing and then I went to flicking my tongue over his Frenulum and the area where he has a little foreskin (Fun with his Frenulum!).
After that I went into some hand and mouth combinations, like Deep Illusions and Taste of Shiatsu.
He had a shaking O. Love when that happens!New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-55405380861646716562013-03-29T15:52:00.000-07:002013-04-22T06:53:32.151-07:00Day 3 - The "End of The Bed For Her" Position
D.Love and I were home alone in the afternoon (a rare occurrence). He was in bed flipping through my book, Blow Each Other Away, and wanted to try the End of The Bed For Her position. I am always glad to receive or give, but am feeling really excited about his eagerness to try new things. So we did just that.
He kneeled on some pillows at the end of the bed and had fun pleasuring me. I New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-2433142376999435462013-03-28T15:57:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:52:30.801-07:00Day 4 - This Time the Oral was 69 Position
Early morning. No one was up yet so we took advantage of the moment. The sun was rising and it was perfect to wake up to some kissing and petting. But my mind was racing about all that needed to be done. Sometimes it takes some more intense stimulation or breathing to get me in my body and out of my head.
D.Love always knows when I am in my head. This time the oral was 69 position, just for a New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-90167188995907326392013-03-27T17:36:00.000-07:002013-04-20T01:00:29.935-07:00Day 5 - A Tie and Tease
I like to plan things out, think about them and create a good scene for D.Love to enjoy. While he was in the bathroom, I snuck into the closet and pulled out some rope. When he came back into the bedroom he knew what he was in for!
I did a simple bind around his legs and then totally teased him. I started with touch all over, and then moved into lick and kisses. I just wanted to tease him, so New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-43972251321207565412013-03-26T16:22:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:48:21.626-07:00Day 6 - Great Cunnilingus!
D.Love wanted to treat me to some great Cunnilingus. I think he likes the end of the bed positions because he put me there again.
This time he kept all of this clothes on as he went down on me. It wasn't long before I had an awesome clitoral orgasm as a result of his hand and mouth combinations.New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-48520814835265148442013-03-25T15:52:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:46:03.174-07:00Day 7 - Parenthood and the 90 Day Oral Challenge
I had made a plan earlier in the day to have a wonderful extensive oral sex and intercourse session with D.Love. See...I'm doing research for my next book on the topic of BDSM and I had spent the entire afternoon with a professional Dominatrix. I wanted to extend the session to where I went into a deep erotic trance....and I had a lot come up for me (I'll write a lot more about this in my next New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-20051202524393765182013-03-24T16:01:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:41:15.936-07:00Day 8 - No Ejaculation Necessary
I really do enjoy giving fellatio. I talk in the book about women having orgasms from giving. It is a super awesome turn on for me. I wanted to mix it up a little, and since I get so many sex toys to try out I thought I’d incorporate the Fun Factory Lovering 8ight. D.Love placed the ring around his penis and I began stimulating him. He got super aroused and we decided to have intercourse with New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-56128788890162815312013-03-23T16:28:00.000-07:002013-04-20T00:44:09.151-07:00Day 9 - Stimulating Him Through His Underwear
D.Love was feeling like he needed to escape, so I watched our son for the evening and entertained guests. He went downstairs to the bedroom to read a book. I knew he’d fall asleep in a wink (he has mild narcolepsy).
It was about 10PM when I came into the bedroom and he was crashed out with a book on his chest and all of his clothes I. I brushed my teeth and then snuck over to him on the bed. New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-14548061539463450942013-03-22T16:37:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:34:07.258-07:00Day 10 - Do I Taste Like Strawberries?
I’d had a very LONG workday. It was a good day but my brain was in work mode. Being a sexologist, it makes it hard to sometimes differentiate my love life from work. I will sit in my head analyzing a technique, thinking about how I might write about my experience, or how something I am experiencing might help someone else.
This particular night I was really in this mode and mostly in my headNew World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-20462142811377384082013-03-21T17:35:00.000-07:002013-04-20T00:45:56.102-07:00Day 11 - Healing Pleasure in the Bathtub!
I think I’m coming down with something nasty. I feel like I have a cold coming on, so I took a nice long bath before bed. D.Love treated me since I wasn’t feeling well and he gave my breasts some oral attention.
He did a lot of great licking and kissing all over my body. First he nibbled my feet and kissed them. He licked my clitoris then went back to my body and breasts. This really New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-25534038573856509762013-03-20T16:47:00.000-07:002013-04-20T00:47:04.963-07:00Day 12 - Can You Catch a Cold From Going Down?
D.Love is afraid to catch my cold and he asked me if I thought you could catch a cold from giving oral. I have to do some research on this. My throat is on fire and I feel awful so giving to him seemed out of the question.
We decided that it was safest to explore some body kissing. He basically worshipped my upper body with his mouth and tongue. He kissed down my arms to the inside of my elbowNew World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-77223260202430040652013-03-19T17:01:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:33:01.909-07:00Day 13 - Fun with The Sqweel and Aloe Cadabra!
Yuck! I’m officially sick. Not sure if I have the flu or some other bug. I’m really proud of D.Love and I for sticking with our commitment to make it to 90 days regardless of being sick. D.Love wasn’t feeling so great either, and the verdict is still out on whether or not he can catch a cold from going down – so we opted on using an oral sex toy called the Sqweel. The Sqweel is like a New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-62785790668481013872013-03-18T17:22:00.000-07:002013-04-20T00:50:03.444-07:00Day 14 - Just Enough Oral to Make Him Want More
After putting our son to bed I found D.Love snoring in bed. I’m feeling a little better so I decided it was a good night to surprise him.
I came into the bed and started kissing, licking and biting his neck. Then I moved below. I kept all of his clothing on, but undid his belt and opened his pants, then pulled his penis out of his boxers, so he was still fully dressed.
I know thatNew World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-50391793282741579972013-03-17T17:25:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:32:14.872-07:00Day 15 - The Flat of the Tongue Felt Better Tonight<!--[if gte mso 9]>
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New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-9415548408207927002013-03-16T17:27:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:31:01.777-07:00Day 16 - We are Dedicated...Even Through Sickness!
Man oh man! I am really sick. Really, really sick. Poor D.Love...he’s stuck giving until I get better.
He’s so sweet. He gave me a great massage since all the coughing hurts and this flu has me aching all over. He said “I just think you need some nurturing touch." And that’s what he did, combined with his tongue, all over my body. We are dedicated.
He asked if I wanted a pass. No way! I am New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-24992943556733325972013-03-15T17:35:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:26:09.533-07:00Day 17 - Ahhh....Necking With Some Petting
I ended up taking a pass yesterday. Yes, I’m determined but last night I was so sick I was weeping and could barely hold my head up. Just someone talking to me seemed to hurt. But tonight, despite still feeling awful, I actually feel like making love. I feel so in love with my partner D.Love. He’s been so great with me being sick. He’s looking super hot these days too.
At any rate, he New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-13238536661359550582013-03-14T17:39:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:25:55.302-07:00Day 18 - I am Feeling So Connected to Him
Will this flu ever go away? D.Love is giving again tonight. One thing I love about sex...it can clear up your stuffy nose. Ah, but it only lasts for a moment and then back to being stuffy.
D.Love gave me some great cunnilingus. He did a lot of licking my clit combined with U-Spot and G-Spot stimulation.
Have I said lately how much I love this man? I am feeling so connected to him after New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-18779775456430385862013-03-13T22:02:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:23:04.284-07:00Day 19 - Open Mouthed Kisses with a Little Suction
I am still sick, but I didn’t care. I wanted to go down on him after all these days. I love giving oral pleasure. It’s one of my great pleasures.
Tonight I gave his penis lots of long licks. I kissed his penis, which he gave me feedback on. Instead of puckered kisses he wanted open-mouthed kisses with a little suction. I added some scratching to his inner thighs, head and belly. He showed me New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-30560753462588373312013-03-12T22:09:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:21:20.132-07:00Day 20 - Master/Slave in the Shower
Took another pass last night. I was crying because I’m still so sick and I had a big work day today. D.Love stayed up all night to help me. He’s amazing. I love him. I need to do something really special for him when I am better. After my long work day today our son was still out of the house so I grabbed D.Love and we jumped into the shower together.
My energy was the best it had been in a New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-32945566866674127232013-03-11T22:16:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:20:57.623-07:00Day 21 - It Was Very Much Like a Sex Lab
I’ve written this awesome book on Oral Sex, Blow Each Other Away. I’m so proud of this book. So today I grabbed my book and started to perform fellatio techniques on him. We did Penis Worship (pg 132) all the way to Give His Penis A Break. It was very much like a sex lab instead of just a pleasure session. I’d do a technique from the book and then ask his feedback on what would be make it New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-20935516228241102262013-03-10T22:18:00.000-07:002013-04-19T11:20:41.420-07:00Day 22 - Neither One of Us Was Really Feeling It
Since yesterday’s Fellatio Sex Lab went so well we decided to switch rolls. D.Love grabbed my book and started in on a variety of cunnilingus techniques involving my clitoris. We moved into intercourse, but neither one of us was really feeling it, so we stopped and went back to the cunnilingus, which felt really good.
Neither one of us had an orgasm, but we were both completely okay with it. New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5408950922996606559.post-50223834380831880422013-03-09T22:23:00.000-08:002013-04-19T11:16:00.483-07:00Day 23 - Not Taking Lack of Erection or Orgasm Personally
I’ve decided that D.Love is a complicated man. I am okay with that. It’s just humorous to me that he is sexually complicated. There is a myth out there that men are easy. D.Love definitely breaks that myth. Men are not so easy. I talk about this in the book, maybe D.Love inspired me. At any rate I gave him fellatio tonight and he was all in his head this time.
He’s been really stressed New World Sex Educationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01046857255159506005noreply@blogger.com0